Times are tough for Dolf Dietrich. Over the course of the last 17 months, he has separated from his husband, lost his job, and lost his beloved canine companion. Things started to take a turn when he and his husband moved to Chicago from New York. “I tried to leave porn and get back into Read More »
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The Many Ways Gays Are Using Grindr During The Pandemic
Apps like Grindr and Scruff are primarily used for hedonistic pursuits. While people seek and have found love and friendship on these evocative platforms, the instances are often an outcome of sex. But during a pandemic where nobody can be within six feet of each other, what purpose do the apps serve? One glance at Read More »
5 Things That Make A Good Bottom
We’ve already written about the eight things that make a good top, and now it’s the bottom’s turn. But don’t fret, beloved bottoms, this is not a critique. Bottoming is an art form that takes a lot of practice to master, so we encourage that you take the following information – offered by tops, bottoms, Read More »
Sword Fight: What To Do When You’re Both Tops Or Bottoms
The heart wants what it wants, and sometimes, this can be in contrast to your positional preference. As gay men, we don’t have the luxury of spotting someone and having things fall magically into place – though, as heterosexual people become more progressive, these lines are being blurred also. Sometimes, gays catch feelings only to Read More »
Social Lubricant: A Conversation With Just For Fans Founder, Dominic Ford
The inception of Just For Fans is one of destiny, borne from a bowel injury and boredom. It all started in 2017 when Dominic Ford, a 12-year porn veteran, had gotten a hernia and had to wait until January the following year to have it operated on. “I’m not good at being idle, and the Read More »
The Best Sex Toys For Gay Boys
So, what are the best sex toys for gay boys? Straight men are using sex toys now more than ever and it’s all thanks to gay people. Allow me to explain. The queer love affair with sex toys began during the sexual liberation movement of the late ‘60s and ‘70s. Since stigma around queer sexuality Read More »
How Halloween Became A Gay Holiday
So how did Halloween become a gay holiday? Halloween is often referenced as the Gay Christmas. As a queer man, I admit I do like the holiday, but more than Christmas? Honey, not a chance. Halloween is in and out like a Grindr hookup, where Christmas lasts longer, like a crush you inevitably ghost for Read More »
Why Do Gay Men Love Big Dicks?
Why do gay men love big dicks? Everyone who is sexually interested in men, it seems, values a big dick. Research published in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences found that, when shown computer-generated images of male figures, women rated their attractiveness higher the larger the penis became. Not only that, but they Read More »
