Erik Vasquez

We’ve already written about the eight things that make a good top, and now it’s the bottom’s turn. But don’t fret, beloved bottoms, this is not a critique. Bottoming is an art form that takes a lot of practice to master, so we encourage that you take the following information – offered by tops, bottoms, Read More »

The heart wants what it wants, and sometimes, this can be in contrast to your positional preference. As gay men, we don’t have the luxury of spotting someone and having things fall magically into place – though, as heterosexual people become more progressive, these lines are being blurred also. Sometimes, gays catch feelings only to Read More »

Buffing the banana. Burping the worm. Choking the chicken…

Ah, that age-old question every man asks themselves at some point in their lifetime…does size REALLY matter?  Unfortunately, there is no right or wrong answer to this question.  It is a totally subjective issue that depends on who exactly you’re asking.   For instance, let’s start by asking your hypothetical sex partner: “Hey, totally consenting sex Read More »