If you’re a queer man, you know the importance of lube. In fact, I’m willing to bet there’s a bottle sitting on your nightstand right now. Given that our bums don’t lubricate themselves (if it does, you might have a significant infection), lubrication is required for anal sex to prevent injury, heighten sensation and make […]
Social Lubricant: A Conversation With Scarlett BoBo
Scarlett Bobo had been doing drag for 12 years before she was cast on the inaugural season of Canada’s Drag Race. A debut where she proved every bit the punk rock powerhouse Canada knew her to be, making it all the way to the finale without bottoming (on the show, that is). BoBo is one […]
Social Lubricant SPECIAL EDITION: A Conversation With Wesley Smoot, Creator and Marketing Director for Unleashed LGBTQ
Starting today, March 25th, through the 27th, all are welcome to attend Unleashed LGBTQ, a three-day virtual event highlighting topics, discussions, products, and services relevant LGBTQ community and consumers. Unleashed LGBTQ will feature keynote speakers, tutorials, discussion panels, virtual fashion shows, and performances from some of the biggest names in LGBTQ film, television, and music, […]
Why Are Gay Men Obsessed With Daddies?
When I came out at 27, I dated a man in his 40s who made it a mission to turn me into his ex. He was a bearded, tattooed model who was physically superior in every way. For him, I was a project; one that took too long, evidently, since he dumped me. Claiming that […]
A Valentine’s Gay Gift Guide
Valentine’s Day is the most romantic holiday of the yearwhich means hundreds if not thousands of discreetly packaged sex toys will soon be arriving on the doorsteps of lovers nationwide. Offering a temporary––and long overdue––respite from the monotony of life in isolation. According to the personal finance company, Bankrate, Americans collectively plan to spend $27.4 […]
Social Lubricant: A Conversation with Nick Capra
Nick Capra recently celebrated a significant milestone: he’s 145 days sober. This isn’t the first time Capra’s been sober, but he’s determined to make it his last. Capra has been using drugs since he was 15-years-old, starting with weed and LSD. When he hit his later teens, he turned to meth and eventually, crack cocaine. […]
Social Lubricant: A Conversation with Matthew Camp
On November 27, the world will be introduced to a first-of-its-kind reality series called ‘Slag Wars.’ . The SFW series, produced by porn company Men.com. Follows Cock Destroyers Rebecca More, Sophie Anderson, and the internet’s favorite top daddy Matthew Camp. While they hunt for the next international queer sex symbol. “Queer sex symbols are like […]
A Proper Education On Anal Fisting
While casually browsing on social media one lazy Sunday afternoon. I happened on an eye- (and hole-) opening Instagram post from sex educator @makeupandsin. It said: “Fisting isn’t just a porn thing. It’s an incredibly intimate act that requires tons of lube and communication.” This quote is great because it offers a refreshing and important […]