So, what are the best sex toys for gay boys? Straight men are using sex toys now more than ever and it’s all thanks to gay people. Allow me to explain. The queer love affair with sex toys began during the sexual liberation movement of the late ‘60s and ‘70s. Since stigma around queer sexuality Read More »
How Halloween Became A Gay Holiday
So how did Halloween become a gay holiday? Halloween is often referenced as the Gay Christmas. As a queer man, I admit I do like the holiday, but more than Christmas? Honey, not a chance. Halloween is in and out like a Grindr hookup, where Christmas lasts longer, like a crush you inevitably ghost for Read More »
Social Lubricant: Conversation With Dallas Steele
The road to porn stardom has not been easy for Dallas Steele. His father was abusive and an alcoholic. His brother was a drug addict at 16. His brother is now sober, as was his father before passing. His dad sobered up after paralyzing a motorcyclist from the neck down, accruing his fifth DUI. Steele’s Read More »
It’s Time To Stop Bottom Shaming
Bottom shaming is real and no matter where I travel, I always seem to get the same feedback from local gays. “This place is full of bottoms,” they’ll say, often pairing the remark with a dramatic eye roll. This response irks me because (1) it’s a form of bottom-shaming, a heteronormative influenced form of discrimination Read More »
Social Lubricant: A Conversation
A Conversation With Kyle Ford (@kidzombie666) If you’re a gay man on social media, there is a very good chance you’ve come across Kyle Ford’s content. Perhaps better known as kidzombie666, the 33-year-old social media personality and queer meme-maker consistently delivers what the gays want. But what do we want, exactly? “The gays don’t want Read More »