Bottom shaming is real and no matter where I travel, I always seem to get the same feedback from local gays. “This place is full of bottoms,” they’ll say, often pairing the remark with a dramatic eye roll. This response irks me because (1) it’s a form of bottom-shaming, a heteronormative influenced form of discrimination […]
Social Lubricant: A Converstation
A Conversation With Kyle Ford (@kidzombie666) If you’re a gay man on social media, there is a very good chance you’ve come across Kyle Ford’s content. Perhaps better known as kidzombie666, the 33-year-old social media personality and queer meme-maker consistently delivers what the gays want. But what do we want, exactly? “The gays don’t want […]
A Preparation Guide For Bottoms
Because you can never be too prepared, here is a preparation guide for bottoms. The phrase “top privilege” exists for a reason. While most consider this privilege primarily social – for instance, tops don’t have to worry about potential mess and can therefore blissfully consume pizza prior to intercourse, bottoms (at least those who wish […]
8 Things That Make A Good Top
By Bobby Box What Differentiates A Good Top From A Great Top? Gays are convinced the world is full of bottoms. When I created a Facebook group to chat about the subject of this article with some openly sexual friends – “Gays, spill. What seperates a good top from a great top?”– one of them […]
How To Hack Your Grindr/Scruff Profiles To Find Companionship
By Bobby Box Hack may be a strong word, but there are ways to set up your Grindr or Scruff profiles to make real connections. Though they wouldn’t define themselves as such, apps like Grindr and Scruff – the former defines itself as “The world’s largest social networking app for gay, bi, trans, and queer […]