So how did Halloween become a gay holiday? Halloween is often referenced as the Gay Christmas. As a queer man, I admit I do like the holiday, but more than Christmas? Honey, not a chance. Halloween is in and out like a Grindr hookup, where Christmas lasts longer, like a crush you inevitably ghost for […]
Social Lubricant: Conversation With Dallas Steele
The road to porn stardom has not been easy for Dallas Steele. His father was abusive and an alcoholic. His brother was a drug addict at 16. His brother is now sober, as was his father before passing. His dad sobered up after paralyzing a motorcyclist from the neck down, accruing his fifth DUI. Steele’s […]
It’s Time To Stop Bottom Shaming
Bottom shaming is real and no matter where I travel, I always seem to get the same feedback from local gays. “This place is full of bottoms,” they’ll say, often pairing the remark with a dramatic eye roll. This response irks me because (1) it’s a form of bottom-shaming, a heteronormative influenced form of discrimination […]
Social Lubricant: A Converstation
A Conversation With Kyle Ford (@kidzombie666) If you’re a gay man on social media, there is a very good chance you’ve come across Kyle Ford’s content. Perhaps better known as kidzombie666, the 33-year-old social media personality and queer meme-maker consistently delivers what the gays want. But what do we want, exactly? “The gays don’t want […]
A Preparation Guide For Bottoms
Because you can never be too prepared, here is a preparation guide for bottoms. The phrase “top privilege” exists for a reason. While most consider this privilege primarily social – for instance, tops don’t have to worry about potential mess and can therefore blissfully consume pizza prior to intercourse, bottoms (at least those who wish […]